Happy Father’s Day coming this Sunday! Aren’t fathers and grandfathers great? The memory of my father still brings a proud smile to my face (and my heart!). If you’re lucky enough to have living fathers and grandfathers, give them a hug Sunday.
Kid wisdom:
When your Dad is mad at you and asks you, “Do I look stupid?” Don't answer him.
Michael
Sometimes our Dads employ “tough-love”. The worst years of my life occurred when I tried that approach. I wasn’t skilled at it; didn’t like the outcome; and today would caution any young father to be wary of this idea. If I could do it over again, I would do it differently.
The good news is my children are resilient. Yours are too I bet. (Passed down from us?) If we are tough with them from time-to-time, they know it’s not permanent - kids are smart:
A flustered father, stressed out from his day at work, was unsuccessfully texting his kids to come in for dinner. Finally, he walks out on his porch and yells for his kids to come in.
At that point one youngster turns to his brother and asks, “I can’t remember, which one am I - Jesus Christ or God Dammit?”
Unknown Sage
Some fathers have a very entertaining view of the world. Take Mike Jaeger’s:
Tell a man there are 300 billion stars in the universe and he'll believe you. Tell him the plate you're handing him is very hot and he'll have to touch it to believe it.
Dads today take great pride in continuing to provide a home for their families, even as the definition of “home” evolves:
Home, nowadays, is a place where part of the family waits ‘til the rest of the family brings the car back.
Earl Wilson
Because my sons have children in their lives, I get to be the grandfather now! Being the grandfather has responsibilities, too:
Sometimes the only difference we can make is passing our wisdom on to someone else who will make the bigger difference.
Linda B. Gray
The older I get the more appreciative I am of the love and devotion I received from my father. He wanted his sons to make a difference. He also wanted us to be patient with his quirks. I remember after my Mom died, my Dad ate his dinners at the hospital cafeteria two blocks from his house. It might have been for the convenience; maybe for the memory of the last place he saw his wife alive.
He ate dinner there every evening for over twenty years. So long, that the employees all thought Al Pokorn actually worked there. One summer, he was even invited to their company picnic! I didn’t mind this innocent charade. But when he won the TV in the employee raffle, I told him he had to give it back!
We are all a little quirky I suppose. Today when my children use one of my little sayings, or demonstrate a family value or tradition that has been passed down from father to son, it brings a proud smile to my face (and my heart)!
So, here’s to my Dad; and your Dad; and everyone’s Dad and their family traditions. They have helped us all make a difference - a tradition to be passed down.
GAP
When life gets tough we could get a helmet… or… we could leverage the peace and share the power of a positive perspective.
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